Why Am I Being Treated as the Problem? Understanding the Anger–Credibility Trap (Part 1)
Have you ever raised something that felt wrong, only to find that the conversation became about your tone or reaction? The Anger–Credibility Trap can leave you doubting yourself while trying even harder to be understood. This reflection explores why that anger can be so difficult to let go
The freedom to be seen: What Ocaña and Nazario still teach us (Part 3)
A personal reflection on Ocaña, Nazario, queer visibility and the parts of ourselves we learn to hide in order to feel accepted, safe or understood.
Nazario: Sex, humour and Barcelona underground (Part 2)
Nazario brought queer life onto the page without cleaning it up first. Through sex, humour, exaggeration and characters such as Anarcoma, his comics placed marginalised lives at the centre of Barcelona’s underground culture. This article explores what becomes possible when queer people are allowed to be complicated, contradictory and fully involved in their own stories.
Ocaña and Nazario: Barcelona, visibility, and the body in the public space (Part 1)
This first article begins with Ocaña in Barcelona, reflecting on queer visibility, public space, shame, performance and the body as a form of resistance.
Pride History: Public Shame, Memory and Resistance
An introduction to a Pride Month series exploring LGBTQIA+ history, public shame, queer memory and resistance, beginning with the lives, bodies and stories that helped make visibility possible.
What if rest doesn’t feel restful?
A short reflection on why self-care does not always feel calming, and how self-regulation can help us find our own way into rest with less pressure and more curiosity.
Exploring New Masculinities
A reflective blog on emerging masculinities, men’s mental health, and how therapy can help men explore strength, vulnerability, identity and connection in a more honest way.
Did You Know the Government Can Help Pay for Your Therapy? | Access to Work Explained
A practical blog explaining how Access to Work may help fund counselling or therapy for people whose mental health, disability or health condition affects their work.
What You Can’t See: Why Empathy Matters in LGBTQIA+, Men’s Mental Health, Trauma & ADHD Support
A reflective blog on empathy, hidden emotional pain, and why we never fully know what someone is carrying beneath the surface.